Hello Everyone!
My name is Tahisha Solages, Founder of the Mother’s Haven. Thank you for stopping by!
On my journey to motherhood, before becoming a mom, my husband and i experienced 5 miscarriages in the first five years of our marriage. This experience of loss was very hard and tested our faith in God, our trust in God and even our marriage. Yet, despite how dark the seasons became before the light, God held our hand through it all, even when i couldn’t see a way out - i know this for a fact because of the life experiences that were attached in these dark times. Yet, God gave me hope and faith, even as little as a mustered seed, to know that i was born to be a mother someday and aspired to be just that , in His time. Did i want to give up on the road…OF COURSE! did i cry, hurt and fear, for SURE! But i knew that this journey could not end like this… i refused it to and we kept fighting and praying with every bit we had left in us until we couldn’t anymore… But then God stood up and He heard our cry, our plea!
In 2017, after God removed the tragedies of loss from our lives, he blessed my womb with a full term pregnancy - our first baby boy JOSIAH! which means - Jehovah has healed! Soon after in 2019, He blessed our marriage again, with another baby boy, MICAIAH which means - who is like our GOD. and again, in 2021, he blesses us with our first baby girl. Our season of paretnhood arrived - and i know if you are reading this and have experienced any thing close to this, that there is hope in God. The faith attached to my testimony, birthed in me more than the bueatuful gift of reproduction, but the desire to share with other women hope, to inspire, uplift and encourage. Did i have to do my part, OF COURSE, did i have to trust God in the parts that i just didnt know HOW… YES INDEED… and you can too!
Since sharing my story to many women, i have found that support it a necessity, as it will always be! Motherhood was never easy, especailly after the fall of man. I was very grateful to have a support system during times of loss, but i understand that there are many women suffering alone. From women who have been waiting, to complications of conception, fibroids and more, there are all kinds of situations that exist, so never think you’re alone.
The Mother’s Haven was designed to be a platform where women can feel supported, loved and inspired as they connect with other women alike, and prepare to be mothers, no matter what season of preparation or in active motherhood they are in.
So, I hope you stay a while, enjoy some inspiration and be blessed!
Love,
Tahisha S.